Can you acquire courage?

The long-running series in which readers answer other readers’ questions on subjects ranging from trivial flights of fancy to profound scientific and philosophical concepts
  
  

Austin Appelbee, 13, who swam for hours to raise the  alarm after his family was swept out to sea off the Australian coast.
Austin Appelbee, 13, who swam for hours to raise the alarm after his family was swept out to sea off the Australian coast in January. Photograph: Briana Shepherd/AP

Is it possible to acquire courage if you don’t have it? I was moved this week by the story of the Australian boy who swam to land for several hours in rough seas to raise the alarm that his mother and siblings had been swept out to sea. Despite his exhaustion, he then ran several kilometres to find a phone.

But I’m also thinking of the lesser demands for courage – such as standing up to a friend, or family member, or tackling a company that’s ignoring your polite requests when you’re suffering from its actions. Or I also wonder how people do certain jobs that, to me, require buckets of courage: starting a business or any other sort of professional risk-taking; reporting from a war zone like Lyse Doucet or Jeremy Bowen. Or just being a police officer knocking on a door of a suspect and not knowing what will come at you from the other side.

What brings courage in all these situations, and if you don’t have it, can you get it? Sam, Exeter, Devon

Post your answers (and new questions) below or send them to nq@theguardian.com. A selection will be published next Sunday.

 

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